Rant(s)

I've got a lot of hoopla to complain about and I don't know if I should put it all in one blog or if that'd just be too confusing.

Oh dash it all, I'll probably just put all here.

Here is a Table of Contents so you can easily navigate through the madness.
1. Friends or as I like to call them "Aquaintances."
     -Crappy ones
     - My trouble making them
2. Getting bashed for being "smart."
3.Getting in other peoples business.


1.Friends or as I like to call them "Aquaintances."

Crappy ones.
So if you read my posts on Facebook, you know how much I loathe the people I
call "friends." Granted not all of you, but yes most of you. You all know I've been in GA for the past couple or few weeks, I've lost track, and you all have known for weeks prior. I'm not saying you should drop what you're doing to see me, but really, if you're so excited to hang out with me when I'm not here then why haven't we hung out? I'm curious.
People who were in my wedding don't even talk to me. Now that's just despicable. You were in my wedding and now we don't know eachother? Cool. I'll remember that when you need something.
Also, I find it incredible that people I've never even met are more willing to hang out with me than people I've known for years. Military wives are the most loyal girls I've met.  They don't even have to know you to befriend you. Thank you to the wonderful girls I've been talking to the past few days and also the girls I have met in the past. You all are wonderful and the most amazing girls I've ever met!

My trouble making them.
I have the worst trouble making friends, I blame technology. Well and my shyness. Thanks to technology, I feel awkward talking on the phone or in person. If you love awkward silences then I'm your girl. And also I worry whether or not someone is going to think I'm weird for the things I like and then not hang out with me. It sounds lame when I type it, but it's how I feel. I guess I shouldn't have skipped school so much because I missed the lesson on "small talk." It totally baffles me how people can have conversations when they just meet someone. When people say "hey, how are you?" I say, "Fine." Or something like it. Theres no, "Fine, how are you?" Most of the time because, to be honest, I don't care. I guess that's a downfall. It's not that I don't care about other people, it's that some times I just don't care how you're feeling at the moment, or I just forget. I can't pretend to be interested in  something I'm not. I've tried. Unless you're grading me on it, I'll zone out.
I'm sure I come off as rude or snobby, but I promise I'm not. I'm just extremely shy and awkward, lets have coffee some time.

2.Getting bashed for being "smart."
This happened a while ago, but it's bothered me ever since. If you know me well, you know I despise people who cannot use the simplest of simple grammar, spelling or punctuation. I'm talking about the things you learned in elementary school. The things they made you memorize so you could write successful papers in middle/high school and college, basically the rest of your life. I'm fine if you don't know what an ellipsis is or how to use one, you didn't learn that in elementary school. I have a problem when you don't know how to use the correct form of "your" or in some cases "you're." If you didn't know there are three forms of  "to/too/two."
Anyways, back to the subject, someone made a snide comment that I was "proud of knowing proper grammar." .........Uh ya, I am. Why wouldn't I be? That's something to be proud of, not how long I can last in a game of beer pong. Which, by the way, I've never played.
I just don't understand why people don't like "smart" people.

3. Getting in other people's business.

I got a very upset series of text messages today from my best friend about how her boyfriends "fake sister" called her and threatened her and said all of these mean words and blamed her for her "brother" being upset.
Excuse me ma'am, but why are you getting involved in someones relationship that you have nothing to do with? You're not even related to the boy, not that, that gives you any right to get involved, it doesn't. Either way back off, you have no right to get involved and threaten someone or say mean things to them when you have nothing to do with whats going on.
This goes out to everyone, a relationship is between two people! The people involved with each other. Not the family or friends. Family and friends have no right to get involved at all, so all of you back off of who evers relationship you're trying to foil.

I think thats all... It's not something just popped into my head, but I'll have to post that another time.

Latuh