Bullies.

I love how my titles are cut and dry. :)

I've always been a quiet person, I never liked standing out or throwing my opinion out there, but I guess people change some what over the years.
I didn't start standing up for people till probably my senior or junior year of high school. I had a friend and she was really shy and people in my drama class were always talking smack about her behind her back but never to her face. I got tired of it and I guess that's when I started standing up for people who were being pushed around and couldn't or were afraid to stand up for themselves. What's funny though, is I HATE conflict, I hate people being mad at me for something genuinely stupid. I hate not being able to explain or say what I mean, especially if I know I'm right.

Then there are the ignorant people who, no matter how much evidence and proof you have, will never believe you or admit they were wrong.

It seems I can never avoid the drama, why does there have to be drama when you're sticking up for someone? Who cares about sides, I'm on no ones side, I'm defending whats right and ganging up on someone isn't right! I don't care who you are, my best friend, my family or some random stranger, I will always stand up for whats right.

Standing up for whats right never seems like the popular "side," but I think that's what's wrong with the world, everyone wants to be popular so they "go to the darkside."

My husband on the other hand is nothing like me. If he can avoid it he will, unless it has to do with me ofcourse. If someone is talking smack about someone else, he'll just stay quiet even if he knows it's wrong. I'm not saying he's a bad person because he's not, he just chooses "not to pick sides." Which is good, I hate picking sides, so I don't, or try not to. I just can't sit there and watch people talk lies or be mean to someone who doesn't deserve it, I just can't. I've tried, and failed, which is why I started anonymously blogging (not this one) so I can say whatever I want and NO ONE will know. It doesn't keep me from standing up for people, but it keeps me out of trouble....Mostly.

Usually I feel good after a blog, but not this one. I know that there are still people being bullied and no one doing anything about it. I know theres a situation where people will get involved when they should just stay out. Grow up people, please.
Whats worse is when adults do it.

Well, I guess thats it.
I'll leave you with one last thought, "If you stand for nothing, you'll fall for anything."
And as always, take this blog how you will, once your mind is set, no one can change it.