Luke 6:42

Let me start by saying I try not to let peoples comments get to me. I've been bullied my whole life, kids at school even family members, I even bully myself. Bullying is something I'm use to.
I say I'm use to it, but that doesn't mean it doesn't hurt.

I haven't written it on this blog, but I've been pretty open with my beliefs on Facebook. In a previous post on here I've mentioned I converted to Judaism. I enjoy my new Jewish faith, but still felt there was something missing.
A friend of mine is Christian and Pagan. I had always been interested in Paganism and nature based beliefs, so I asked her about it. I started doing more research on nature based religions/beliefs and decided that I wanted to be Pagan as well.

This blog post isn't about my beliefs, so I will stop in a moment.

In short, I'm a Jew witch. I'm not Wiccan I follow no Wiccan Rede my craft isn't a religion, its a practice.

So what the blog post is about.

I have an online business (that I will shamelessly plug right now: www.somethingwickedshop.com) where I sell "witchy" things. I'm proud of my talent, I hand carve items, I make jewelry, and I'm lucky enough to have a gift to read tarot. I'm proud of myself, my business and my talents.

I advertise on Facebook, I'm in a few groups for military wives and I some times post my website on those pages (I make sure it's allowed before I post, if it's not, I don't post. I respect the groups rules). I've never had a problem posting my business on these pages. I've had a few run ins with people saying I'm going to hell, but that ended quickly.

Today I posted my business on about 4 Facebook pages. Almost immediately I got attacked for what my business deals with.

I will post screen shots of what happened. I have blocked some of the names, the names I have blocked are of dear friends. People who I respect and people who respect me. The names I have not blocked are the "women" who have no respect for me and so I shall not respect their privacy.

The green color is myself.

After  I read this last comment by Nicole, I went upstairs to tell my husband I was ready for dinner, but "they're so mean" came out instead. He asked who I was talking about and I said, "the people on those pages."
He hugged me and a tear or two slipped out of my eyes. He told me to ignore them and I nodded and said "I  try to," as I walked out of his room, he followed me and said, "you know how you think people should just ignore posts they don't agree with? You should do the same." I replied, or attempted to reply with, "I know, but I--." I started sobbing before I could finish the sentence. He said, "Thats what they want, they try to get you to fear them and be intimidated."
"I'm not afraid of them or intimidated by them, but I didnt say anything about them at all, they just attacked me for no reason." I said this through tears.

Reading these comments hurt so much. People are mean, I'm mean some times, I gossip some times, and yes, I even judge people  on occasion, though I try so hard not to.
However, I cannot even begin to comprehend how someone who claims to be Christian can say, "so be hurt all you want, it mans me no differents LOL," Which I roughly translated to, "be hurt all you want, it makes no difference to me."

How? How could you be Christian and no care that what you're saying is hurtful to someone? I have never said anything to anyone with the intent of hurting them.

I don't care if you think what I do is devil work, I don't care if you think I'm going to hell, I don't care if you think I'm evil. I've heard it all before, I know whats true.

None of what I do is "devil work," witches, nor Jews believe in the devil. How can I do his work if I don't believe in him? I also don't believe in your Christian hell. In Judaism, if you go to hell it's for a short amount of time and its not the fire and brimstone your fear based religion teaches. In Judaism hell is a place you go to see what you did wrong, to feel every possible emotion and feeling, to feel such sorrow that you know how terrible what you did was wrong, then you get to be with G-d. And as for you thinking I'm evil, I'm not the one sitting here being so inhumanly mean to someone that I've never met.

If one of us is going to "hell" it's going to be you.

I don't like that I cried about what two immature people said online, but when someone attacks me for no reason it's hard to ignore it.

I feel bad for them, honestly, how can someone have that much hate in their heart?

I did learn one thing today. I have so many great people in my life. The lady covered up in pink and the lady covered in red don't even know me, but they stepped in. Even people not in these posts stood up for me, people on my Facebook.
I was and still am upset about what happened, but at the same time I get to see how lucky I am for these amazing people in my life.

I don't want anyone to read this and think, "wow Christians are douche bags." They're not-not all of them.
In fact almost every single person who stood up for me is Christian. They all accept me and I'm beyond grateful for their friendship.

To those of you who commented on these posts or that commented on my Facebook status earlier, thank you. I wish I could express in words how amazing you all are and how much you mean to me. My heart is overflowing with joy to see how caring and kind all of you are. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, I appreciate you so much.

Christianity.. Oops, I mean Hypocrisy.

So, I don't understand people.

I don't want to hate on people, or sound like a jerk, but I kinda just wanna smack people upside the head  sometimes.

So this is what I'm not getting: Christians.

There are other religions I'm sure that have hypocrites, and not all Christians are, for lack of a better word, stupid. So if this blog doesn't describe you, don't get butt hurt, I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about the Christians that give everyone else a bad name. The ones that say one thing and do another.

So a popular topic for Christians to disagree with is homosexual couples. No, this has nothing to do with Chik-fil-a, please stop talking about it.

It's obvious that a ton of Christians are against gay couples. Why? Because it is in the Bible.
Here are some versus about "gayness" from the Bible:

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. Genesis 2:24 
God aid unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply... Gen 1:28 
You shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an abomination. Lev 18:22
"Do you not know that the wicked will not inherit the kingdom of God? ...  nor homosexual offenders ... will inherit the kingdom of God. 1 Corinthians 6:9-10
If a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable. They must be put to death; their blood will be on their own heads. Leviticus 20:13
And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet. Romans 1:27
And He answered and said to them, ‘Have you not read that He who made them at the beginning ‘made them male and female. Matthew 19:4
But from the beginning of the creation, God ‘made them male and female. Mark 10:6

I could go on, but you get the point. Like how I put it in a rainbow?? Ha Take that Bible thumpers!

So yeah, that's basically why Christians hate gay people. And here is why I find it annoying: They're being hypocrites.

Yeah, the Bible says all of that stuff about not being gay and how it's wrong. However, the Bible also says these things:

...but every wife who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head, since it is the same as if her head were shaven. 1 Corinthians 11:1-34

Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works.1 Timothy 2:9-10

You shall not make any cuts on your body for the dead or tattoo yourselves: I am the Lord.Leviticus19:28

But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. Matthew 5:28

It is good not to eat meat or drink wine or do anything that causes your brother to stumble.Romans14:21

Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous. Hebrews 13:4

If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. Matthew 5:29

Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven; Luke 6:37

Do not speak evil against one another, brothers. The one who speaks against a brother or judges his brother, speaks evil against the law and judges the law. But if you judge the law, you are not a doer of the law but a judge. There is only one lawgiver and judge, he who is able to save and to destroy. But who are you to judge your neighbor? James 4:11-12

Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. Ephesians 4:29

And as you wish that others would do to you, do so to them. Luke 6:31

Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. 1 Peter 4:8

Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God, and whoever loves has been born of God and knows God. Anyone who does not love does not know God, because God is love. 1 John 4:7-8

You get the point. The Bible says that women should cover their head. How many Christian women do you see with their head covered?????? NONE!

Instead they make fun of Muslim women who are doing Allah proud, and abiding by His word. Christian women, however, are not listening to the word of God and are not doing what he asks. Cover your heads ladies.

Also, women should dress modestly. No fancy clothing, no Coach purses, no expensive jewelry, or fake hair. How many Christian women do this??? Very few.

You shall not tattoo yourself also having piercings are wrong since your body belongs to God. I know many many Christian women with tattoos and even more with earrings. How can you defile the body God gave you???? Oh that's right, you're a hypocrite.

How many guys walk down the street, see a hot girl and think to themselves, "Damn!" ?? 100% of men do. Sinners!

How many Christians get shitfaced???? Raise your hand.

How many Christians wait till they're married to have sex???? Again, VERY FEW!!

If your eye sins tear it out cause that's better than all of you going to hell..?? What??? First of all that is just messed up. Also every Christian who has sinned with some part of their body, better get their chainsaws out so they can cut some limbs off, because that's what God wants....... ??? Does that make sense??

If you judge God will judge you right back. So all of those Christians that are judging the gay lifestyle, you're going to be judged. All Christians who bomb abortion clinics, you're going to be judged. All Christians who judge other religious groups, you're going to be judged. 

I have a huge problem with Christians judging others. I get it no one is perfect, we all judge each other, but I swear, Christians and bored females are the main group of people in this world that judge people. Cut it out, it's not cool.

Stop trash talking. If you think gays are going to hell. Cool. Keep it to yourself. If you think your neighbor is a slut. Awesome. Don't trash talk her online.

So those crazy Christians that blow up clinics and throw crap at gay people or protest military funerals, according to YOUR Bible you want people to do that to you. Good to know.

The last verse. 

LOVE ONE ANOTHER!

Who cares if their gay, straight, black, yellow, Muslim, Christian, old, young, girl, boy, LOVE THEM. What is so hard about that?

Christians, for the love of God don't pick and choose what you want out of the Bible, it's not a burger, you can just decide you don't want this verse or that verse. It is the Bible, you get all of it and you have to follow all of it, not what you want.

And people, get over Chik-fil-a. I love eating there and I also love gay people getting to marry who they want. Those are my opinions and I'm entitled to them. Chik-fil-a makes yummy chicken and doesn't support gay marriage. That is their opinion and they are entitled to it. Stop being annoying.

Fin

and as a disclaimer on everything I do, don't get butt hurt, this is my opinion, you don't have to agree, but I'll still love you. :D

Yes, I am a Jew.

Recently, in March, I "converted" to Judaism. I use quotations around "converted" because I have not officially converted. To completely convert to Judaism, first a rabbi has to make three "vigorous attempts" to dissuade you from converting. This is to make 100% sure the  convert is sure they want to. Also it takes a minimum of a year to learn all of the practices and customs, while I have no problem with this, I can do it on my own. While I do not neglect the help of anyone, it is just easier and less anxiety triggering for me to do it this way. Also, I am not a normal Jew, I chose to practice Reform Judaism, which is basically the same exact thing with just a few differences.

Anyways, on with my story. I grew up Christian, celebrating Easter and Christmas, going to church when I was younger all that great stuff.

I got even more into Christianity when I got older, around 18, I actually read the Bible (not the whole thing, but a good deal of it). I was so in love with Christianity and my glorious savior, Jesus Christ himself. I knew no other way, I knew that Jesus was my savior and Christianity was "right."

I met and married my husband, who claimed to be Agnostic, which was totally cool with me. I have never thought that two people could have different religions and not get along. I actually think the world would be a better place if people of different religions would just hug and be friends.

Anyways, I cant remember the exact moment when I decided I wanted to change religions, but I remember that it was part of my husbands doing (I say this almost jokingly. It was he who urged me lovingly to take a closer look at Christianity). Since my husband didn't celebrate Christmas, I did feel little awkward celebrating Christmas and more or less making him celebrate it too. He reassured me multiple times that it was ok and he didn't mind. He said he didn't like it because it is so commercialized, which I agree with and he didn't like the "gift-giving" part. I also have a friend or acquaintance who grew up Christian, but also practices Paganism, which I think is absolutely amazing, I have always loved Pagan beliefs. So between those two I learned a TON about the "truth" of Christianity.

Christmas and Easter both were taken from Pagans to get more people to follow Christianity. Halloween is also a Pagan based holiday. If you actually take time and compare Christan and Pagan holidays you will find a lot of similarities. Which is very ironic to me considering a lot of Christians hate, literally hate, anything that has to do with "witch craft." I kind of just want to knock them on the forehead like the V8 commercial and be like "your religious holidays were Pagan to begin with!"

I remember talking to my husband about how a lot of things about Christianity bothered me. I hated a lot of Christians because they were so judgemental. In the Bible it says to not judge, but it seems like every freaking Christian just read over that section of the Bible and read only the parts about stoning people.
I hated how people were reading the Bible like it was still "The Old Times." Yes, the Bible says a man can't  lay with another man (however I don't think it says anything about lesbian relations. Ladies you lucked out!) However, we are living in 2012 times have changed. It also says we have to give sacrificial offerings, but last time I checked no one was doing that.

Times change, therefore the way we read the Bible has to change. I digress.

I didn't like that Christians, during Christmas, were so hell bent on saying "Merry Christmas." I'm glad you love Christmas, but not everyone else does. Other people celebrate Kwanzaa or Hanukkah  or nothing at all. Why are you going to be the dick that offends someone because you want to be stubborn?

So I was talking to my husband and I said, "I love G-d, but I don't love Christianity anymore. I wish there was a religion before Christianity." To which he responded, "There is. Judaism."

Duh!

I, like a ton of other people, had a preconceived idea of what Jews were like. "Oh Jews are greedy. Jews are selfish. Jews are blah blah blah." I never hated Jews, I just, like everyone else, wasn't educated about their religion. Turns out, Jews are none of those adjectives.

 I found these stats on Jewfaq.org Tzedakah is a HUGE part of Judaism.
"Business Week's 2006 list of The 50 Most Generous Philanthropists included at least 15 Jews. The Chronicle of Philanthropy's list of the top 50 charitable donors in 2008 included sixteen Jews, according to a JTA article. In other words, Jews, who are only about 2% of the American population, are 30% of America's most generous donors. Similarly, a 2003 study (reported in the Jewish Journal) found that 24.5% of all "mega-donors" (people who donate more than $10 million a year to charity) are Jewish."


So bam! We are not stingy, we are actually required by Jewish Law to be charitable.
(Number 51 & 52 of the 613 Mitzvot) (also you Christians lucked out, you only have 10 commandments, we have 613!!!)

Anyways, I did more research into Judaism and totally loved it. So I talked to my husband about it and he was actually really happy! Not in the fact that I dropped Jesus like a hot potato, but that I actually opened my eyes and asked "Why do I believe in Jesus?" He thinks, and I agree with him now that, the majority of Christans believe what they believe because that is how they were brought up. It's true. If a child grows up in a household where the parents take badly about a race, the child will hate that race. Same thing goes for religion.
I asked him just now, "were you happy I converted or just happy I questioned it and actually did research?" He said, "I was just happy you opened your eyes and did the research. I would have been happy if you stayed Christian because you actually looked to find out why you wanted to be Christian."

Needless to say, I am so happy to be Jewish and learn about traditions and customs! And I know a huge question is "How can you turn your back on your savior?" I remember my friend actually asked me if I no longer accepted Jesus as my savior. I said I thought he was "a great person and if he was the Messiah then great..." Something along those lines.

However, now a couple months later I can answer that question with 100% honesty. No one can possibly imagine how much it hurts my heart to say this, but no I do not think Jesus was the Messiah. And before anyone says "oh those Jews are brain washing you." No. It literally hurts me to know that what I believed for 22 years was a lie. The other day when I read what I am about to post, my heart broke. I wanted to cry and  now, writing this, I am pushing back tears. It's like everything I believed in, everything I put my faith in was a lie. This man, MY savior lied.

As many of you know, or may not know, Christianity is based out of Judaism. The Old Testament is actually the Torah. The New Testament is what happened when Jesus showed up.

According to Judaism, the Mashiach will do the following:

"Before the time of the mashiach, there shall be war and suffering (Ezekiel 38:16)

The mashiach will bring about the political and spiritual redemption of the Jewish people by bringing us back to Israel and restoring Jerusalem (Isaiah 11:11-12; Jeremiah 23:8; 30:3; Hosea 3:4-5). He will establish a government in Israel that will be the center of all world government, both for Jews and gentiles (Isaiah 2:2-4; 11:10; 42:1). He will rebuild the Temple and re-establish its worship (Jeremiah 33:18). He will restore the religious court system of Israel and establish Jewish law as the law of the land (Jeremiah 33:15)."

Jews do not believe Jesus is the Mashiach because he did not do any of these things. Therefore he could not be the Mashiah or Messiah. Basically this means, Jesus was just another person claiming to be the Messiah and unfortunately people believed him. Therefore making Christianity what it is today, in my opinion, a cult. Did you know that Christians have killed more people than any other religion?

Let me take a moment here to say, if you're a Christian, awesome! Great for you! I have nothing against you or what you believe in my entire family is Christian (minus my husband, he now relates to Pantheism). My best friends are Christian and whenever we have children, if they want to be Christian then we will be 100% supportive of their decision. However, I do urge you to do some research, not for me, but for you. Learn all you can about G-d and Jesus, about Christianity. Ignorance is the root of all evil after all.  I've heard it's blissful too XD.

Not having a Mashiach is good though. Unlike Christians who are, for some reason, looking forward to "Judgement day," Jews are looking forward to Olam Ha-Ba. Which is going to be so peaceful and wonderful. There will be no fighting or hatred.

Growing up Christian I was actually terrified by some of the teachings. For example, on the Judgement day if you weren't perfect you were going to hell.
When you died if you sinned, you were going to hell for all eternity where you would suffer and never see
 G-d's kingdom.
Basically Christianity scares the shit out of you so you stay in line.
When I read about Judaism I feel comforted and safe. I know that some day the Mashiach will come and Olam Ha-Ba will be great. And if he or she doesn't come while I'm alive I know that I will enter into Olam Ha-Ba and even if I did bad things when I was alive I'm not going to spend eternity in Hell. According to Judaism when we do bad things we create demons for ourselves so when we die they will punish us. However it is not for eternity, some say we simply see our wrongs objectively and feel utter remorse for what we did  other say it is more like Christian Hell and there is one severe punishment. Either way this only lasts for 12 months, then we go to Olam Ha-Ba. Unless you were truly evil, then you do spend eternity in Gehinnom. I don't plan on being evil my entire life, so I think I'm good. :)


This was such a long post, and I give kudos to anyone who stuck it out and read the ENTIRE thing!!

If you have any questions please don't hesitate to ask! I would love to answer any of your questions!!!

more idiots

People are so stupid.

Lately I've been doing well not letting people get to me, or posting my annoyance with idiots.

Let me start with this: KEEP YOUR DAMN LEGS CLOSED!!

Condoms
the pill
IUD's
get your tubes tied
have your guy get snipped

there are plenty of ways to not have a baby.
I'm sick of seeing posts from people saying "lololol everyone here gets preggers after they've lived here for a first few months."

No you're just immature and irresponsible, I've lived in this shit hole for a year and I don't have an infant running around.


I'm sick of idiots, can God create smarter people please?

RIP Sleeves

Yeah I love summer only because that means sleeves up. Although it takes my husband 30 minutes to an hour to roll them I think it looks incredibly hot. It's one of the best things about a Marine Corps uniform, the arms, only certain guys can pull it off, which makes it even more special.

For reasons still unknown the Commandant has decided to make the combat utility uniform sleeves down all year round effective October 24th 2011. That gives me only two more days to enjoy my hubbys desert cammies, sleeves rolled.

Two days because tomorrow is his Friday and he doesn't go back till Sunday

It is a sad day for Marine Wives every where that will no longer see their husbands arms.

Although I disagree with the Commandants decision, I respect him more than I do the "president," so like with everything in the Marine Corps, I will grin and bear it and secretly (not so secret now huh?) despise the uniform change.

Oorah Marine Corps.

Some pluses to having sleeves down:
They will sweat more meaning the disgusting fat bodies who are still in for God only knows why might lose weight. Ya that might sound mean, but when a nasty who weighs 200 lbs gets promoted instead of a perfect ideal Marine who is in his weight class and gets kicked out because they had too many of said rank, I have a problem with that.
It lowers the chance of getting skin cancer.
It saves time on the weekends, time that can be spent together, especially the females who complain that they don't get to spend time with their hubby because of the Marine Corps. Sorry honey, but you can't have your cake and eat it too.

In the north, when it gets colder sooner than anywhere else, they wont be as cold as they would be with sleeves up.

Comment your pluses! 

P.S.
Stop complaining about the gov't taking away TA. Yes it sucks, no they shouldn't have done it (take away single SNCO BAH) but its better than them deciding not to pay us for months on end.
Vote smart this year and get Obama out of office!!!!

Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else

-Judy Garland.


I change my hair color, it seems every month. I get bored, I do it for myself, never to please anyone or to fit in.
The only time I dyed my hair for someone else is when my drama teacher told me I had to dye my hair a solid color for the play.

I never thought about why I dyed my hair. Was it to change myself? Trying to make a new character to live through?
My hair is currently blonde with dark roots. Did I dye it because "blondes have more fun?" Honestly, no. I've always wanted platinum blonde hair, this is by no means platinum blonde, no where close. Everyone was telling me not to, my husband was even skeptical. "It'll ruin your hair." "You'll look funny." "...I'm not sure about that..."
The quickest way to get me to do something is to tell me not to.

"Don't eat that cookie!" Immna eat that cookie.


I guess part of me did want to live as a blonde, to add another character to my resume, I wish I had a name for my  "blonde" look. I should name all of my looks, note to self. I like being blonde, it's great, it's pretty, when my roots aren't showing and when/if I manage to get all of my hair. (I've dyed it more than 4 times and still have random brown streaks.) I look pretty, people tell me and I know I do.


My point is, no matter what color I dye my hair, (I plan on doing lavender or red (Ariel red) next then I'm on my way home back to brown) it doesn't define who I am and it never will. I'm a brunette a heart and these pesky roots pushing through are a reminder that, "Hey, just 'cause you covered the brown doesn't mean your someone else. It just means you're playing dress up."

And that's what I've been doing. I'm not a blonde, but it has sure been fun pretending to be one and when I do go back to my roots, pun intended, I will miss being blonde. This girl, however, has more fun being brunette. :)

No matter what you do to change your appearance, you can never change what's inside. I like gaming, and reading. I like playing in the mud and fixing things around the house. I wish I knew how to fix cars 'cause I totally be into that as well. I like not wearing make-up, but at the same time I LOVE WEARING MAKE-UP! I'm southern-not a redneck or hillbilly, a southern belle thank you very much. I love Disney and acting like a child still. No hair color or clothing will change who I am, only my appearance to others who can't handle my AWESOMENESS!
But seriously, don't try to change yourself for anyone, it wont work.


To answer the question I'm sure is on everyone's mind: Do blondes have more fun?

No. They have the exact same amount of fun as any other hair color. The fun scale depends on the person, I, personally, like to sit at home with my windows and doors open during a rain storm in fall, snuggle with a blanket and  a good book. Not party all night with random strangers.

It's been hilarious to use "blonde moment" as an excuse to certain stupidities.


It's been a blast blondie, but soon, you will be a distant memory. When? I'm not sure, but soon.


Good night Quahog.

How to make military wife friends.

I've been in a little over a year and I've learned some really helpful tips on how to make life long besties as a military spouse. I understand the difficulties you go through when you've just PCS'd and you're trying to make new friends, so I have taken it upon myself to write up a few tips that will help you military wives!
I hope these help you in your journey to make life long friends.

1. Join a social networking site that is run by wives, like on Facebook, this will help you get in the group and start to meet new ladies.

2. Once you're in said groups, introduce yourself, make sure you use your full name, because we all know it's not prominently shown on your Facebook, announce your husbands rank. If you are an officer wife, you are better than enlisted wives so act that way please. Enlisted wives, if your husbands rank is higher than other wives, treat them like crap and like you're above them, because heck, you went through 13 weeks of hell beside your husband so obviously you wear his rank!! :)

3.Agree with every single thing other people say! It is very important not to have a mind of your own! And don't you dare have a different opinion from other people. I'm not saying it's bad, I'm just saying never ever ever ever post your different opinion or speak your mind to other ladies, they wont like that they're wrong or that you don't like the way they act.

4. Remember how you and your girlfriends acted in kindergarten? Nothing has changed! If your friend doesn't like someone you absolutely cannot like them either! Remember that!!

5. Keep with attitudes, remember how you and your girlfriends acted in high school? Again NOTHING HAS CHANGED!!! It's like Christmas right, this blog is the gift that keeps giving. Start awful rumors about the other ladies you've met! Start drama because someone disagrees with your opinion! Be a mean girl, everyone loves a mean girl!

6. It is a MUST that you talk about people behind their backs and then act like you're best friends! Be careful who you gossip with though! They might be one of those bad mature grown up losers who doesn't like drama and that could be bad!

7.I know you love your husband and all, psht yeah right who am I kidding, you're not a good military wife until you have 12 lovers, so make sure you're keeping count, the other ladies wont like you if you're true to your partner!



I hope this list has helped you in making your new BFF's! Please comment below if you have any other tips!