I know the shame in your defeat

How fun was today? Huh?!
Stupid people starting fights on Facebook for no reason, gotta love 'em.

I'm sure people think it's my fault and that I shouldn't have posted such a status, but like I said to them, it's my Facebook and I'll post what I damn well please. I encourage you to do the same.

I could honestly careless if you watched the entire Casey Anthony trial or watched none of it. The thing you have to remember is one word, "perspective." I learned the significance of this word at the last daycare I worked at, thank you Frank for opening my eyes. It doesn't matter what the truth is, it matters what people see. His example, if you're playing with the children and for some reason you turn your back on one child and that child's parent, or anyone for that matter, happens to see your back turned to that child they're going to see it as you don't care and you're not watching that child, even if you had just turned around for literally 2 seconds.

It's what the other person sees, that's what they're going to believe, no matter what you say.

I don't know if any of you who commented on my status watched the trial, again I could careless, but when you wait till today to post a status about how awful it is she got off and her daughter is dead it makes you look like you're only doing it for the attention.

I'll be honest, I didn't watch the trial. I don't like watching or seeing things that will make me upset, and the death/murder of a child and the ignorance of some people would make me upset. Do I think Casey Anthony is guilty of murder? I have no idea and I'm not going to sit here and say she is because 20 people on Facebook say she is. I'm not going to judge someone when I have no information or proof that she did it. Do I think something is wrong with Casey? Yes, granted there's something wrong with everyone.

Do I have a heart of stone for not posting about how awful it is that Caylee died? No, I think it's terrible and I hope they find whoever did kill her, her family deserves to know. No child deserves that. And because I have faith in God, I know that not only is Caylee safe and happy, I know God will judge the person who did kill her even if we don't. And anyways it's not our place to hate someone. "Anyone who hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life in him."

So that's basically all I have to say about the trial, now let's move on to the people.

I'm glad people felt so moved to comment on my status, but let me just say this and I don't mean this in a mean way, well in the less meanest way possible, the world does not revolve around you. Because I post something and maybe it has to do with something you said or have done doesn't mean I'm talking about you. If I want to say something to you, I'll most likely blog about it. I might come to you about it, but we all know I like blogging, so read my blog if you want to know if I have a problem with you. Let me also say this,  this is the computer. A computer is a machine. Machines are incapable of producing emotion and words, now-a-days, are often flat.
I most likely will not put time and effort into using adjectives to explain how I'm feeling, especially in the heat of the moment. If I have had time to think it over and sort of calm down that is when you, my fine people, are in trouble. I will tear you to pieces, after all the pen, or in this case-keyboard, is mightier than the sword. Is that mean? Probably,(warning I'm about to get ghetto) but when you come on "my turf" and disrespect me, I have a big problem with that and you wont do it again, trust me. </ghetto>

Also, when you're supposed to be my friend, do not talk down to me and say I need to get a life. Get off Facebook if you're so concerned about people having lives. Obviously you don't. And how dare you even say that, I'd like to see what you would be doing if you were in a new state hundreds of miles away from your family alone, while your husband is on the other side of the country, dumb bitch.

If you know me well, you know I rarely cuss, I usually only do it when I'm mad or well, since I've been married to someone who drops the F bomb like it's nothing. I have no problem with people who cuss, some times I find it funny or cute. Yes weird I know, but it's true. So please don't censor yourself around me, I'll feel offended that you can't be your true self around me.

Like I said before, I'm glad people felt moved to comment on something I said, I feel one cannot grow and learn without others. I would love to talk to any and all of you who have something to say, please message me or email me if you want to tell me your thoughts and opinions. Now I cannot push this enough, but I refuse to have any type of civil conversation with you if you plan on being immature, ignorant or just down right rude.

This is the most random blog I think I've posted.

Lets keep that style going.

This Christmas I'm wanting to go to a children's hospital and donate gifts, if you'd like to help Lani and myself set this up please let me  know, I've never done this and any suggestions are welcome!